“I am not alone, because my LONELINESS always accompanies me.”
Whenever you will make a search on google for pics on loneliness you will definitely see this above mentioned line. Before i write further, i would like to ask two questions here. Well, my first question, will you ever make such a search? And second if yes, then why? Did it strike in your mind when you read the second line of my post about the search that why in the world anyone would search for pics on loneliness? Ahhhhh…. My friends people do that. I too did. Well, in my case i did because i needed a pic for my post. Now, if others do for the same reason as i did then it’s normal, but if their reason differs from mine then it is a matter of concern. As no one in this world loves to be lonely. No one wants to live alone. But, still many of us have found a really good companion in loneliness. Sounds weird but unfortunately true. 😦
Have you ever felt lonely in crowd?
Please, don’t ignore this question. We all know that we are living in a world where no one has spare time for others. And infact these days we don’t have time for ourselves, then how can we manage to spend time with others. And this is what leads to that so called SELF PROCLAIMED LONELINESS. We all have a routine, we all are busy, we all don’t have leisure time. And when other people complaint that we don’t give them time then we simply put our busy schedule before them. But, if the same thing happens to us we feel like we are the most unwanted people of the world. Initially we try to get adjusted but when we see that no one is noticing our presence, simply because they are too busy, we attach this self proclaimed loneliness to our life. In the beginning we are not that much involved in this lonely world of ours but gradually with the course of time a strange feeling of left alone and unwanted roots deeply in our hearts. It feels like no one cares for us and no one bothers whether we live or die. Consequently, we start ignoring crowd, we prefer sitting alone, living a lonely life, keep thinking for hours and looking at void.
Did anyone force us to choose such a lonely life? Did anyone throw us out from the society? Did anyone declare us unwanted? No, no one ever did that. Then what in the world pushed us in that dark world of loneliness? It were we my friend. Yes, we were the culprit here. We forgot that some days are bad, some are good, some are crowded and some are lonely. And we simply assumed that this world no more needed us. Well, this can happen to anyone. And nobody is an exception here, including me. But why let our loneliness consume us? Just think once if no one ever says that you are needed then does it prove that you are unwanted. No my friend, not at all.
So, next time when you feel like ignored and unwanted, keep remembering,
“No one in this world is unwanted, because if it would have been so, then why the almighty would have created him/her?” 🙂
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