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Squeezing Life

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“Sometimes you don’t have time and sometimes you don’t get time. But in both the cases you fail to squeeze life out of life.”

Squeezing life out of life. Seems strange naa.
Yes it is. And the question is what is the need to squeeze life and why there is such a need?
I won’t answer these questions. I would rather raise a question. Are you really living and enjoying your life?
Think twice before you continue reading this post. And i am sure most of you will give a negative answer, i mean your answer will be a NO. I knew that.

How???
Guys…Guys…Guys…
Don’t you think that we humans are just chasing our unlimited and indefinite wishes everyday. We are too busy to fulfill each of such desire that we even don’t have time for our own body, our own soul. Then how can we give time to our family, friends and other fellow beings. Now here comes the need to squeeze life.

You all know that when we have to use lemon, we squeeze it properly. We do the squeezing until we get the whole juice from the lemon. That’s where my point lies.
You have got a life, you have some wishes to be fulfilled, you have responsibilities, but you have a life too.
So, squeeze it to it’s best.

Save some days from years,
some hours from days,
some nano seconds from your seconds
and
some moments from your moments.

Time once gone will never come back. We all know this but we are too busy to think over it. So, this time do some thinking. Spend some time and play with your kid, share your feelings with your parents, shower your love on your love, sit with your elders for a while, be crazy with your friends and last but not the least pamper the boy/girl or man/woman whom you daily see in your mirror.

“Try to steel a very few moments out of a few moments…!”

ME vs. WE

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We humans are bounded by many responsibilities. And if we just ignore them then life becomes hell as no one can live a lonely life. We all need people around us. Either family or friends or someone special, we always need someone in our lives. But sometimes we get indulged so much in the company of others that we actually forget ourselves. And this is the topic about which i am gonna write here.
I know it would sound awkward if i write that in the fight of ME vs. WE , we sometimes need to let ME win. 🙂
Not every person in this world is lucky to have a perfect life. But yes, if we try then even everyone of us can hopefully get a good life, if not perfect one. 😀
I am not a magician who will just move her magic wand and change a boring life into exciting one. But…But…But…i do believe that if we start looking after the person whom we daily see in our mirror then definitely one day our life can be the one we dream about. If you still haven’t got my point then let me be more clear. What i wanna write here is that it’s really good if you are fulfilling all your duties towards your family and society but make sure that these duties shouldn’t be the hurdles in the way of your self development or rather i should write your self improvement.
You are a good father or mother, you are a good son or daughter, you are a good brother or sister, you are a good husband or wife, you are a good friend or lover, but all this goodness is a total waste of time if you are not good to your own self. Every soul needs care and tenderness. And if you don’t feed your soul with the nutrients of self care then clearly you won’t be able to care for others too. 😦
I know you would think that writing such good words is easy but there is no practicality in these beautiful words. No, it’s not like that. Believe me you can be the change you want. What you need to do is start caring for yourself. And more importantly sometimes it is good to be selfish and to think about yourself first.
So, next time whenever you find sometime, go and give sometime to the person who is just your shadow and who breaths inside you.
And keep remembering my friends,
“Loving yourself is the best gift you can give to yourself…!”

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