ME vs. WE

We humans are bounded by many responsibilities. And if we just ignore them then life becomes hell as no one can live a lonely life. We all need people around us. Either family or friends or someone special, we always need someone in our lives. But sometimes we get indulged so much in the company of others that we actually forget ourselves. And this is the topic about which i am gonna write here.
I know it would sound awkward if i write that in the fight of ME vs. WE , we sometimes need to let ME win. 🙂
Not every person in this world is lucky to have a perfect life. But yes, if we try then even everyone of us can hopefully get a good life, if not perfect one. 😀
I am not a magician who will just move her magic wand and change a boring life into exciting one. But…But…But…i do believe that if we start looking after the person whom we daily see in our mirror then definitely one day our life can be the one we dream about. If you still haven’t got my point then let me be more clear. What i wanna write here is that it’s really good if you are fulfilling all your duties towards your family and society but make sure that these duties shouldn’t be the hurdles in the way of your self development or rather i should write your self improvement.
You are a good father or mother, you are a good son or daughter, you are a good brother or sister, you are a good husband or wife, you are a good friend or lover, but all this goodness is a total waste of time if you are not good to your own self. Every soul needs care and tenderness. And if you don’t feed your soul with the nutrients of self care then clearly you won’t be able to care for others too. 😦
I know you would think that writing such good words is easy but there is no practicality in these beautiful words. No, it’s not like that. Believe me you can be the change you want. What you need to do is start caring for yourself. And more importantly sometimes it is good to be selfish and to think about yourself first.
So, next time whenever you find sometime, go and give sometime to the person who is just your shadow and who breaths inside you.
And keep remembering my friends,
“Loving yourself is the best gift you can give to yourself…!”

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You are BEAUTIFUL

They say,”Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.”

If it is so then why in the world, we are not able to see that beauty in our own selves? Why we always neglect that beautiful soul staying in our body? Why we always take for granted the person living inside us? Why on earth we don’t understand that we too are beautiful?

These are few questions which always hit my mind, whenever any of my known ones starts saying that i am nothing and just a burden on earth. Don’t know why but we humans literally are fools. We simply don’t understand one straight fact that if we are happy then everything is going to be fine and if we aren’t then everything is going to be ruined. If we feel that we aren’t good in something then we won’t be able to do that thing. It is said that our thinking makes us what we are. So, if we think we are capable in doing something then we definitely will do it. And the moment we will be able to see ourselves in such beautiful pictures, believe me my friends, we will see that beautiful soul which lives in our body.

Writing such encouraging words is too easy, i know, but whosoever writes such things will definitely have experienced atleast some of these things, otherwise how could that person would have been able to write on such topics. So, beleive me, my experience says that loving yourself, caring for yourself and above all seeing yourself as a beautiful person is a prerequisite for a beautiful life.

So, next time when you look into the mirror and see yourself then keep remembering these three words-
“You are Beautiful.”

Pen it down

I have heard people saying that maintaining dairy is a good habit. Thought i don’t know how much good it is but somewhere i do believe that if you have something in your heart♥ and you are desperate to let it out and you find no one whom you can tell, then i suggest you to pen it down. Ways may differ, but by doing so you perhaps will soothe your heart and soul.
I remember when i was in school, one of my classmates’ parents came at parent-teacher meeting and they told our teacher that they were worried a lot about their daughter and the reason they provided was that their daughter used to write dairy daily. My teacher was shocked to hear that, even i was feeling strange. As for me a small girl like me was not supposed to write dairy. It was elder’s business, that’s what i used to think 😛 . Well, coming back to my point, so the parents told the teacher and she suggested the girl to stop all that nonsense and concentrate on her studies, because that was her priority and as i wrote earlier writing dairy was not a child’s business at all.
I grew up and started writing poems or a few lines. I still remember in my college days i wrote my first two poems (one in Hindi and another in English) for our college magazine. That was the very first time when i pen down my feelings. And thereafter there was no looking back. I still remember how it felt when i wrote those first words. Awesome. Simply Awesome. Sometimes when i was in a situation when i couldn’t explain anything to anyone or couldn’t tell anything to anyone i used to write it on papers. Though i never maintained a dairy. I guess, i should have. But…. Well, what i am sharing here is my personal experience that sometimes it’s good to pen down yourself, your feelings and your heart. I know you all listen to music as music is the best way to soothe our soul and so is writing. Try it once. Who knows, may be someday we can get the most finest writer out you. 🙂
As we all know-
“Phoenix rises from its own ashes…!”